I am doing the oxide.perm thing and When I did my username for group/user and Steam Id for Id and then there is a permission thing and I have no Idea what to put for there please help

I dont understand exactly what is the question ?.
Have you created the kit ? with a kitname ?. did you add inventory items to the kit ?
If you want the kit to be available through the permission system you have to add the permission

example

"Sniper": {                                                                name of the kit
"Name": "Sniper",      
"Description": "",                                                      information you want to show about the kit
"RequiredPermission": "kits.*****",                          the permission you want the player to use (must be headed by kits.)
"MaximumUses": 0,
"RequiredAuth": 0,
"Cooldown": 0,
"Cost": 0,
"IsHidden": false,
"CopyPasteFile": "",
"KitImage": "",                                                use imgur type 3rd party site to download an image you want to show for kit

You then grant the group or user the permission to redeem the kit
/o.grant group <group name> kits.*******
/o.grant user <username> kits.******                                  

I cant create any kits even tho I am the owner with commands I have no commands for the kits

 Type /o.grant user <yourname> kits.admin  (although you should not really need it if  you have added yourself to server config as owner/admin)  but if you already have the permission it will say you already have it, if you dont (for whatever reason) it will say the permission has been granted.

Then you type /kit and the gui will open and you can add/edit kits. dont forget to not make the mistake almost everyone makes at some time or the other , make sure  your inventory contains all the equipment you want the kit to have then click on Copy From Inventory and get the confirmation, (it will not copy anything from your backpack)