Ive tried what you've suggested for others in this help forum and none of it has helped
it doesnt sy anything after doing /dwatest and console is silent too. It does reload fine though but doesnt send anything to discord. Im also using Rustcord and deployed the server with LGSM - tell me if any of these decisions could be messing with the plugin.

Did you check your oxide/logs for errors?

Have you got https://umod.org/plugins/discord-messages as a plugin on your server?