I was wondering if any high pop server owners had tips on how they grew their servers initially?
My server is a lightly modded 3x solo/duo/trio. Basically the modded experience without TP, clans and pay-to-win kits.
People tell me to get my friends to play, and other players will just "come naturally" but none of my friends want to play on an empty server, and I can't get anyone else. I've posted on reddits, listing sites, paid for listing site advertisement, posted in 20+ discord servers, reached out to small to medium Twitch streamers, and had me and my co-owner reach out to countless friends to no avail. How do we get even 1 player on our server?
And playing on our own server is not an option. At one point we got 3 small twitch streamers to join, my friend and I won a gunfight so they accused admin abuse and left. From then on we decided we would never play.