so i cant get the bot online i followed all of the instructions but the bot dosnt come online

What plugins are you using with the extension? Are those plugins showing any errors when you reload them in the server console?

to be honest i havnt a clue im just trying to connect my server to discord and the server provider sent me to add this but i know nothing about discord except talking to people sorry.

The extension won't connect to your bot on its own. You need to load a plugin that uses your bot token. Once the plugin tells the extension to connect to your bot then it will show as online.